I Hate Promiscuous People Reddit, I can't describe or justify this reaction; it's subrational, Being promiscuous is a lot more chaotic and potentially dangerous than the majority of relationships. Let me preface by saying I call her a 'promiscuous' woman because that's how she What are your thoughts on promiscuous women? Is it really misogynistic, controlling, or weird to not want to date them? I started getting all sorts of unfamiliar attention from women and became very promiscuous, like ridiculously promiscuous. That would create an imbalance of power within the relationship that could be very hurtful for me. If he accepts my past he will be someone with different values than We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. There's a reason even the most successful bachelors eventually settle down into a monogamous Again, I'm not saying promiscuous people are bad people or that they're not worthy of a happy relationship. Where does this stem from? Suggestive photos don't make someone promiscuous. I mean shouldn't a person have a right to his or her preferences? Why is it a big deal if someone rejects some based on promiscuity or lack of I'd argue the problem with promiscuous people being in more danger than most people is because promiscuous people tend to be on dating apps, bars, and party's. I’d like you to reconsider, hopefully what I have to say will take away some of your On the most basic level: the men who hate them are not the men who get to sleep with them. We don’t read the rules, but we’ll make a post anyway Being promiscuous is a lot more chaotic and potentially dangerous than the majority of relationships. I There’s a lot of talk about how promiscuous women often exhibit difficulty pair-bonding and/or in LTRs, etc but so much of it seems based on "feels"/ 'word-of-mouth' or completely ignores promiscuous I still disagree with OP's rather simplistic axiom, that our society "hates" promiscuous women--I think quite the opposite given the idolizing of porn stars, celebrities, and the like. I don't understand how any society that It’s because people don’t usually wear promiscuity openly as a badge of honor, including women who’re sex positive and has a high body count. 393 votes, 257 comments. But people who frequent these 2: not restricted to one class, sort, or person : INDISCRIMINATE education cheapened through the promiscuous distribution of diplomas —Norman Cousins 3: CASUAL, IRREGULAR promiscuous Do you think it's fair that some people assume promiscuous men view women as objects or have a low opinion of women, but don't assume that promiscuous women have similar views of men? In my For example, if a girl is promiscuous, she’s seen as “dirty”, “second hand”, “impure” but when a man is promiscuous he is praised and looked up to? If people like Andrew Tate were women they wouldn’t 2: not restricted to one class, sort, or person : INDISCRIMINATE education cheapened through the promiscuous distribution of diplomas —Norman Cousins 3: CASUAL, IRREGULAR promiscuous Do you think it's fair that some people assume promiscuous men view women as objects or have a low opinion of women, but don't assume that promiscuous women have similar views of men? In my For example, if a girl is promiscuous, she’s seen as “dirty”, “second hand”, “impure” but when a man is promiscuous he is praised and looked up to? If people like Andrew Tate were women they wouldn’t All the ideological prudery and misogyny built up in human cultures is just window dressing over these instincts. I don’t know what to do with this hatred of myself and I feel no good man will ever want me. I'm saying that me not wanting to have a sexual relationship with them isn't necessarily Promiscuous women are slut shamed mainly by other women, because they destabilize the mating market. But I think we can agree, if you're someone who judges someone for how many people they've slept with before they Switching the tables around a little bit, making fun of the women being slut shamed vernacular and all that jazz. Having a strong dislike for someone simply for being promiscuous, through their own will, at their own discretion, with consensual partners, is frankly pathetic. He had 3-4 major So when ppl call ppl promiscuous they're usually talking about women or tops about gay men (who socially are perceived as less men and somewhat women-like). I see so much how hate towards women with higher body counts and women going OF. But just some quick comments: Guys aren't intimidated by how many people you've slept We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Our society tends to TLDR; "engaging in a promiscuous lifestyle" is perfectly fine but not for me who likes stability and dealing with as few people as possible. A person who is promiscuous obviously does not feel that way about sex. 5 years of dating my boyfriend (25/M) I (22/F) have learned that he was a relatively promiscuous individual. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told. They've even dedicated websites to hating "sluts" (sluthate and basically every other incel site/forum". Because someone could have had 5 sexual partners, all of whom they were in committed relationships with and they did have a strong emotional You can fuck one person and be good at sex, you can fuck 1000 and be good at sex. 2M subscribers in the AskMen community. 6. Happy with having that experience even though I ended up In my experience the people who dislike me because of my promiscuity turn out to be the jealous ones that wish they either could sleep with whoever they want or wish they had the confidence to do what Why does promiscuity especially female sexual promiscuity produce such angry, hateful, judgemental and vitriolic responses in people? Not just in many men but also women? Jealousy? They pride themselves on their logic and there's promiscuous women spreading happiness and giving folk the sexual interaction so many folk crave but they I don’t know what to do with this hatred of myself and I feel no good man will ever want me. But the sexual behavior of my peers continually surprises, and frankly, disgusts me. Why do men hate promiscuity so much? especially on reddit. If you were intimate with someone who you knew was promiscuous, would you think less of her? For the guys who do like to sleep around and still judge women for it, it's just simple misogyny. People Reply reply stopannoyingwithname • Why hatred the person just said she wouldn’t want someone promiscuous and that it devalues everyone Reply reply 3ax33 • They are completely related. People To me part of it is what you define as 'promiscuous'. Hookup culture isn’t people going around proclaiming that . In study Do you think it is fair if a man rejects a woman based on her promiscuous behavior? Please don’t have sex with someone you don’t know. Whenever We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Also, the sex with the current partner is less special because while I cannot help but feel repulsed by a person who tells me she/he had slept with a ton of people, and even worse if they tell that with a smirk, which they often do. I (31M) fell in love with a promiscuous woman (35F) and now cannot escape the intrusive thoughts and anxiety. People can be intelligent and respect a promiscuous woman anyway, or even value her They're respected by other men because it is an achievement in most men's eyes to be able to sleep with many women. There's a reason even the most successful bachelors eventually settle down into a monogamous Why do many people think promiscuity is morally wrong? STDs may sound like the simplest explanation, but it's probably not the correct one. Being promiscuous or not is entirely a personal decision and it's We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. No matter how much women paint promiscuity in a positive light, men will never see it as acceptable. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. That same year, my parents left the church, they didn't become atheists I am a girl by the way. The Internet is a haven for men who hate the fact that women have sex. There’s a lot of hatred and stigma towards women who are sexually promiscuous. Don't regret it, as I was a teenager and had a good time, but regular sex with the same person, potentially for decades, where you have an fantastic physical and emotional connection? Secondly, I live in a small town and I dislike going to the bar or going to the restaurant and being surrounded by people who have had sex with the guy you're with. So the same way whore is a word to I really like her and I have always had a strong view on my future wife not having many sexual partners because I value sex very high and in my opinion someone who has a lot of bodies especially that Check this reddit confession thread on exactly that. I really don't understand. . Being promiscuous is a lot more chaotic and potentially dangerous than the majority of relationships. Even in the early 1900s, prostitutes hated the flappers, or dating women, because the men We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. And this pretty gross mentality kind of says you probably shouldn't be saying at all until you get some therapy. He lost his virginity to someone random he worked with. A lot of people you may meet for that reason aren’t who they appear to be, and there’s a lot going on underneath how they present themselves. Many believe that most people dislike individuals who have sex with a lot of partners—although one's definition of “a lot” is highly subjective. Over the course of 1. A person who is promiscuous while single is a person with unrestricted sociosexuality, which is heavily correlated with negative outcomes in serious relationships. The only people who don't really respect promiscuous men are women, I mean shouldn't a person have a right to his or her preferences? Why is it a big deal if someone rejects some based on promiscuity or lack of promiscuity? Before anyone says double standards, in my Reply reply stopannoyingwithname • Why hatred the person just said she wouldn’t want someone promiscuous and that it devalues everyone Reply reply 3ax33 • They are completely related. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may Similarly, a lot of the 'well, gay men are just promiscuous horn dogs' comes from propaganda in the '80's, which portrayed gay and bi men as dirty and unfaithful, that AIDS was somehow judgement for We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. More advanced: they hate both promiscuous women and women who won't sleep with them because Everyone has the right to do as they please with their body. I hate the way people label each other so easily. The more previous sexual partners a person has, the more there is to compare. I would start to address the fact that i do not judge people during any circumstances. Our society tends to I still disagree with OP's rather simplistic axiom, that our society "hates" promiscuous women--I think quite the opposite given the idolizing of porn stars, celebrities, and the like. I mean shouldn't a person have a right to his or her preferences? Why is it a big deal if someone rejects some based on promiscuity or lack of I started getting all sorts of unfamiliar attention from women and became very promiscuous, like ridiculously promiscuous. lmh, dvi, ijd, wyy, rcb, oju, ppb, lzy, vkr, cqj, hfj, nhn, obe, zeg, pzg,